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Designing a Personalized Birth Plan for an Empowered Delivery

June 15, 2023

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Expectant parents have a lot on their minds as they prepare for the arrival of their little ones. From decorating the nursery to stocking up on baby gear, there are plenty of tasks to keep them busy. However, Eden Berry believes one essential task that should not be overlooked is creating a birth plan. In this blog post, we’ll explore the importance of birth plans and provide some tips for creating one.

What Is a Birth Plan?

A birth plan is a written document that outlines your preferences for labor, delivery, and postpartum care. Birth plans allow parents to communicate wishes and ensure their desires are respected during childbirth. Create a birth plan collaboratively with your healthcare provider or independently, with as much or little detail as desired.

One of the most difficult things about childbirth is that no matter what you plan, there can always be curveballs during labor and delivery. For many expecting mothers, this fact can make them feel hopeless and discouraged from creating a birth plan.

Eden Berry believes the unexpected nature of childbirth is the exact reason to have a birth plan. The purpose of a birth plan is to provide clarity and guidance during this often unpredictable process of childbirth. A birth plan can help you feel more in control during what can be a stressful and overwhelming time.

Why Are Birth Plans Important?

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There are several reasons why birth plans are important. First and foremost, they help you communicate your preferences to your healthcare provider. Your provider wants to make sure that you have a positive birth experience, and a birth plan can help them understand your expectations.

Secondly, a birth plan can help you make informed decisions. Prepare by considering preferences for pain management, interventions, and decisions about your birth experience. This can help you feel more confident and empowered during labor and delivery.

Finally, a birth plan can help you feel more in control. A birth plan provides a sense of control during the overwhelming experience of giving birth. It can also help your partner or support person feel more confident in their role during labor and delivery. Discuss plans for unexpected situations with your partner or support person, not just the ideal scenario. A birth plan allows your partner or support person to be an effective advocate in situations where you feel out of control.

When To Write Your Birth Plan

Plan your birth early to explore options, consult your provider, and make adjustments with ease. Ideally, you should have your birth plan completed and shared with your healthcare provider by your third trimester or at least by 32 weeks.

Starting early can give you time to ask the necessary questions so that you are better informed about your options for labor and delivery. Crucial for first-time parents, unfamiliar with childbirth process and available options. Review and update your birth plan for each pregnancy, as preferences and priorities may change.

Eden Berry advises mothers to stay flexible and open-minded while using a birth plan for communication with healthcare providers. Birth plans may require adjustments due to unpredictable circumstances during labor and delivery.

How to Create a Birth Plan

Creating a birth plan may seem daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. Here are some tips for creating a birth plan that reflects your preferences and priorities.

Do Your Research

Before you start writing your birth plan, take some time to research your options. This may include researching different pain management options, learning about the stages of labor, and exploring different birthing positions. You may also want to research the policies and practices of your chosen birthing location, whether that’s a hospital, birth center, or home. Ask questions of your health care practitioner if needed so that you know all the options available to you.

Focus on the Big Picture

While it’s important to include specific details in your birth plan, it’s also important to focus on the big picture. What is most important to you during your birth experience? Are there specific interventions or procedures that you want to avoid? Do you have any special requests for postpartum care? Keep these priorities in mind as you write your birth plan. Keeping the big picture in mind will help you get to the heart of what matters most to you and why.

Be Flexible

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While a birth plan is a useful tool for communicating your preferences, it’s important to remember that birth is unpredictable. Your labor and delivery may not go exactly as planned, and it’s important to be flexible and open to change. Provider prioritizes safety and health, adapting plan if needed for you and baby’s well-being. When you can communicate the big picture for your labor team, it will help them devise flexible ways to get there.

Keep it Simple

Your birth plan doesn’t need to be a lengthy document. In fact, a one-page document that outlines your key preferences is often sufficient. Keep your language clear and concise, and focus on the most important details. Eden Berry has created a sample birth plan that can be used and tailored to your needs.

What to Include in Your Birth Plan

A birth plan can cover a wide range of topics, including pain management options, birthing positions, delivery methods, newborn care preferences, and postpartum care. Parents vary: specific requests like music/aromatherapy or general plans, both valid choices.

Labor Preferences

Your labor preferences will likely be a major focus of your birth plan. Some things to consider include:

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  • Pain management: Do you have a preference for pain management during labor? Would you like to use natural methods such as breathing techniques, massage, or hydrotherapy, or would you prefer to use medication like an epidural? It’s important to discuss your options with your healthcare provider and include your preferences in your birth plan.
  • Birthing positions: Do you have a preference for birthing positions? Would you like to try squatting, kneeling, or using a birthing ball? Including your preferences for birthing positions in your birth plan can help ensure that you’re comfortable during labor and delivery.
  • Environment: Do you have any specific requests for your labor environment? For example, would you like the lights dimmed, music playing, or a certain scent in the room? These details can help create a calming and supportive atmosphere for your labor.

Delivery Preferences

Your delivery preferences will also be an important consideration for your birth plan. Here are some things to think about:

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  • Delivery method: Do you have a preference for vaginal delivery or cesarean section? It’s important to discuss the risks and benefits of each option with your healthcare provider and include your preference in your birth plan.
  • Pushing preferences: Do you have a preference for how you’d like to push during delivery? Would you like to try different positions or techniques? Including your preferences in your birth plan can help ensure that you feel in control during the delivery process.
  • Episiotomy: Would you like to avoid an episiotomy if possible? This is a surgical cut made in the perineum to widen the vaginal opening during delivery. Discuss this with your healthcare provider and include your preference in your birth plan.

Newborn Care Preferences

Your newborn’s care will also be a key consideration for your birth plan. Here are some things to consider:

  • Skin-to-skin contact: Would you like to hold your baby immediately after delivery? This skin-to-skin contact can promote bonding and breastfeeding.
  • Breastfeeding: Do you plan to breastfeed your baby? Would you like to breastfeed immediately after delivery or wait until later? It’s important to include your preferences in your birth plan so that your healthcare provider can support your breastfeeding goals.
  • Circumcision: If you have a baby boy, you may want to include your preference for circumcision in your birth plan. This is a personal decision, and it’s important to discuss the risks and benefits with your healthcare provider.

Postpartum Care Preferences

Finally, your postpartum care will also be an important consideration for your birth plan. Here are some things to think about:

  • Rooming-in: Would you like to have your baby in your room with you during your hospital stay? This is called rooming-in, and it can promote bonding and make it easier to breastfeed.
  • Visitors: Do you have any specific requests for visitors during your hospital stay? It’s important to communicate your preferences to your healthcare provider and include them in your birth plan.
  • Discharge: When would you like to be discharged from the hospital? It’s important to discuss this with your healthcare provider and include your preference in your birth plan.

Who Should See Your Birth Plan

Share your birth plan with your healthcare provider, including obstetrician, midwife, and involved support staff. Include your birth plan in the hospital or birth center for easy access by your care team, as suggested by Eden Berry.

Discuss your birth plan preferences with your partner or support person, in addition to your healthcare provider. This can help ensure that everyone is on the same page and can advocate for your needs and desires during the birthing process.

Share your birth plan to ensure all involved in your care understand and support your preferences during childbirth.

Conclusion

Eden Berry believes strongly that women and their support partners’ wishes should be honoured and respected during this precious time. We equip you with the resources that you need to have informed conversations with your healthcare professional which is extremely important. Please visit Eden Berry Resources for more information on creating your birth plan.

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